After decades of depression, a serious suicide attempt and resulting brain injury, I not only survived, but went on to thrive by discovering the super power we all have to build a better brain and joyful life. He was actively trying to be prepared for when he got out and used a horrifying experience to make him stronger and help other people. Futile Persistence: Why Do We Keep Our Bad Habits?

They are more, not less likely to struggle in the world.And the effect on adults is generally similar.

It is then that we learn and become stronger. In my own experience, the diagnosis and treatment of a 'disorder' can exacerbate and prolong the initial problem.It is not possible to compare emotional states to physical ones. I’m really trying to figure how we get stronger from this level of suffering. Daily taking anti seizure meds or such at strengths that leave you weak & lethargic, of no real contribution to you family. The pigeons become, in a sense, superstitious.As do we.

It does affect many things other than personality. Only machines are calibrated to truly understand, we are driven by evidence and can draw sound conclusions.Don’t confuse good training with trauma. The biggest flaw with your view is that you think you can control the universe to the point of perfection, guess what you can’t. It is for the above reasons that assessing the statistics of children who grew up in 'tough' neighborhoods as a measure of trauma/outcome derivatives may be misleading. But it is not the calamity that made them so. Severe parental abuse and neglect can indeed disturb personality development fundamentally, particularly for certain children who are already vulnerable temperamentally (genetically). I have been made aware several times lately that this is not a widely accepted philosophy. I would say to you that acceptance is not the same thing as resignation or settling. It comes down to choice you either overcome it or it overcomes you! I am glad that you found your strength!. if coddling were the wellspring of strength, the generation presently in ownership of the industrialized world would be the physically, emotionally, and intellectually fittest group of persons ever to have lived.Comparing one generation to another is tricky because generations differ on many variables other than level of coddling or trauma. I agree that sometimes correlated events are linked causally but technically speaking, we need to be able to demonstrate that experimentally before we can start to speak in those terms. You need them to survive, but, assuming they are of decent quality, they don't decide the type of person you'll become.Of course street dogs are unpredictable, they have been in fights with no backup and have learned to look out for themselves. Writer(s): Jorgen Kjell Elofsson, Alexandra Leah Tamposi, Gregory Allen Kurstin, David H. Gamson . And being a survivor is being strong even if it appears weak.In fact, people who've gone through trauma are not 'better at recognizing fearful expressions and reading their surroundings.' In humans, many common beliefs are based on this error.

The victims of abuse often become abusers themselves and go out to create more abusers in a horrific cycle. This quote was a real pick me up for this morning. Then you conclude that "tender love and care toughen you up". Obviously there is no one size fits all and it’s dependent on a variety of things…but for the most part in life our minds behave more like our enemy that our friend. Physical injuries are obviously a different situation however even people missing limbs can become stronger people. One more reason to love the stuffin out of your kids, and any kids you come in contact with.

The saying comes from the “Maxims and Arrows” section of Nietzsche’s book, Twilight of the the Idols (1888).

By : SupernaturalWinchester. It’s also earned itself the moniker ” the suicide disease” because several have opted to end their lives from shear frustration due to never ending off the chart pain, & no medical relief. For some reason, when we are happy or content we don't reflect or analyze ourselves and/or our actions, but when we undergo a hardship, we tend to ponder about what went wrong. I think he is depicting the ideal “triumph over evil” situation.You are SO right. Thus, a 'strength' via trauma.

It does say that PTG is the outcome of some not every person.I have just received a message from my darling daughter and this is what it said. Jun 2, 2017 - Explore Manon Fatima Martin's board "Quotes - What doesn't kill you... Makes you stronger! I would seriously question any therapist who uses them anecdotally as a substitute for the hard work of recovery. In fact, they are worse at it, interpreting many benign situations and expressions as dangerous and hostile. You’re right, not easy, but so worth it!This is an exellent and practical advise I have feel it strongly as I pass through many experiences similar to it. Personally it was my mental and physical disability (from an occurrence at nine months of age) that drove me to become what I am today - a Counselor and Healer of people. Maybe Nietzsche actually believed that people could become better, greater, smarter by facing adversity, you weren't simply born better like some people believed.



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